I know that I will not attack my ex-fam members if I will be assimilated. Nor I will give my planets willingly to my new fam, so they could hit them. It would not be fair IMHO, after they have funded my fleet and actions until that point. Call it a personal PNAP or something.
I am not doing it to protest or anything, that is just how I am built. I hope ppl will understand that, even if they do not agree.
I also hope it doesn´t count as IA.