Not sure if these options would be possible or not but i think some of these may help put current state of the game
One idea of mine is to have a limit on the amount of planets that can be attacked in a day until a certain time in the round. Say a family can only make 10 attacks in a 24hr period until week two then it goes to normal morale rules. This would mean attacks are used strategically until a set war date.
Another idea would be to make a set amount of planets one family could take from another in a weeks period( 10% cap)
Another idea I’ve posted in the past was an auto fam bank so those who can’t be super active can still aid in and be productive as the rest.
Final idea bring back anon play. Players targeting others for previous rounds is never a good thing and at least with anon play people could hide.